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This is perfect. Completely relate. X

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So happy this connected with you Bonnie 💛

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Oh Jen, how I relate to this post! As a highlysensitive-neurodivergent-prone to anxiety gal, I NEED space and rest to thrive and to be 100% there for my community :) Thanks for being an inspiration to keep going at my pace x

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When I’m really honest with myself about how much space I need to be able to thrive and feel like myself in this journey I realise that’s why it’s so important to give myself permission to live and work in a gentle and spacious way! So happy this post resonated with you :)

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Just want to share that I'm in exactly the same boat. Someone asked me about my big goals and I authentically shared back that I'm experiencing a deep contentment right where I am, and want to savor all that is now... rather than thinking about how I want it to be more (because I don't). Not now, at least. So, I'll savor what is now, right alongside you. 💛

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Savor is the perfect way to describe it 💛

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Heck 👏🏻 yes 👏🏻 Jen!! I am right there with you about everything you shared here!! So refreshing to find another slow living Mompreneur here 🥰

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Thanks so much for this post, Jen. You've articulated something that I've been feeling for some time now. Here's to no longer feeling guilty about sitting still and feeling content!

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Sitting still is some of my favourite way to spend my time! 💛

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This resonates so much. I have had so many life changes lately, including a chronic illness diagnosis, and have felt pressure/guilt around growing my business and putting in "enough" hours. For years, I have sought to go above and beyond and push myself to achieve and grow. But that is just not this season. I love your reflections on gentleness, contentment, and spaciousness - that feels right for me, too 🩷

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I’m so happy this resonated with you Sarah. And from one human with a chronic illness to another - our version of ‘enough’ may look very different to other peoples and that’s okay. Pressuring ourselves to try and keep up with other people’s pace is a one way path to exhaustion and overwhelmed so we have to be kind to ourselves and give ourselves permission to go at our own pace 💛

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Thanks so much, Jen. That's a message I really needed to hear and greatly appreciate.

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Thank you for this post! I’ve worked really hard over the past several years to build a high earning business. Algorithm changes with Google this past year cut the legs out from under me. I’m still earning money, but 50% less than before. When I think about returning to the hustle again, I just can’t do it. I’m homeschooling 5 kids, and I don’t have the “work until 2am and live on 7 hours of sleep” energy in me anymore. So for now, I’m working on being kind to myself and telling myself that 10-15 hours of work a week is enough for now. Maybe I’ll hustle again, but not right now.

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Love that you are being kind to yourself June and not opting into a hustle approach that won't actually work best for you. Here's to doing business at our own pace ✨

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